
In my opinion, the word "Love" is one of the most vague words in the English langauge. No other word has so many possible definitions, no other word can be applied to so many situations, no other word can be so misinterpreted or misunderstood.
In philosophy, there are many different natures of love. Three "natures" of love, which were established by the Greek, which I'd like to discuss are: Eros, Philia, and Agape.
Eros - The greek meaning of the world constitutes passion, usually of some sexual implication. The philosopher Plato, however, established a different definition for the word. In Plato's opinion, eros is "the love for the beautiful." Basically, Plato defines eros as love for a true form os something which we percieve as beautiful. This love is not bound to human affection; it can extend to appreciation for beauty in nature and art, etc. Eros constitutes an extreme desire - an intense longing for this beauty.
Philia - Unlike eros, philia does not constitute an intense desire. It more so consist ofaffection and appreciation. This type of love can be applied to friendship or even family. Aristotle's view of philia when applied to friendship clearly annotates necessary properties for this relationship. People seek someone who is kind to them, admires them and shares their thoughts and views. According to Aristotle, the most compatible people will produce the best possible kind of friendship - and can possibly develop into love.
Agape - In a nutshell, Agape is the love shared between God and man, and exteneds to the love for mankind in general - the one form of love which I unfortunately must say I am not sure I possess... This love is taken from phrases in the bible such as "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might" (Deuteronomy 6:5) and "love thy neighbour as thyself" (Leviticus 19:18).
As high school students, one way or another we experience each form of love at some point. There are two forms of love that I truly belive in and they are as follows:
1) Love for a hobby - it is important to have something in our lives which we hold to the highest possible value, something that we can emmerce outselves in. For me, two things come to mind. The first is music. My relationship with music has grown over the past few years, and perhaps is the only relationship I am guaranteed to have for the entirety of my life.
2) Love for another person - When I say this, I am reffering to bonds that emerge themselves as a result of your iteractions with people. Love within a family is not necessarily reflective of love - you cannot tell whether or not you would feel the same about thos people if you were not forced to spend so much time with them. Love for another person you meet at some point in your life, however - specifically a form of love that goes beyond friendship - is necessary in my opinion for experiencing true happiness.
I will not divulge any personal information whatsoever, but I will say this: For the first couple years of high school, and I'm sure many people will agree, we all experience several "crushes". This form of love we feel for someone, who we possibly do not have a strong relationship with, is common in high school. After the jump, you can hear a remake of a song I wrote and recorded first back in Grade 9. That song is the embodiment of romantic relationships at a younger age. Below it, is an example of a type of relationship that can form at this point in my life. Being a huge fan of Pokemon at the time, I always had a desire to see Ash and Misty end up together. But although they were close friends, there was never any admittance by either character that they had feelings for each other beyond friendship - that is, until a soundtrack came out with this on it, which is perhaps my favourite love song of all time. Video provided below. (And theres also a video of one of the themes from Mother 3 [my favouite video game ever!] called "Mother 3 Theme of Love". Its a beautiful song thats very fitting for the theme of LOVE in general)
Finally, I believe that music is a wonderful way for expressing love. Following is a list of some of my all-time favourite songs about love (not necessarily "love songs"):
Misty's Song - Pokemon
All My Loving - The Beatles
If We Were A Movie - Hannah Montana
I'm In Heaven - ATC
Make You Mine - Vanessa Hudgens
When The Day Met The Night - Panic At The Disco
About A Girl - The Academy Is...
The Artist - The Hush Sound
I Miss You - Blink-182
Ok well technically I can go on forever with this so just enjoy the songs I posted below...
Mother 3 Theme of Love: